Janet Siskind accurately describes
Thanksgiving in her article “The Invention of Thanksgiving" by saying that “Thanksgiving
is inescapably part of American culture” (Siskind 167). There’s no way to avoid those big American
holidays. Christmas decorations are
plastered around stored before Thanksgiving is even celebrated. The holidays are part of being American which
means that it is almost impossible to not know that a holiday is coming up
soon. Siskind says that “Thanksgiving is
a day on which all persons who consider themselves Americans celebrate […] centered
around a stuffed turkey” (Siskind 167). Most
families have a generic formula for celebrating Thanksgiving, like being
surrounded family and eating turkey. Janet Siskind goes on to describe that
traditionally “[f]ootball games are scheduled and televised throughout the
nation; an elaborately constructed, now-traditional Macy’s parade may be
viewed” (Siskind 167). Another tradition
that is often celebrated by typical families is the tradition of watching
football games along with the televised parades all day. Although there are some generic traditions
that take place during Thanksgiving, some families have their own Thanksgiving traditions
that reflect on their individual identity.
Every year my family will get
together at my Uncle’s house for Thanksgiving early in the morning and the
celebration last all day. As a whole we
follow the typically traditions of having turkey, watching football and the
parades on TV. Our family prepares mashed potatoes, corn, green bean casserole,
mac n cheese and other traditional “American” foods for Thanksgiving. I call these food items “American” because
they are supported culturally through media.
Although these items are typical, my family has their own recipes and traditions
involved in the preparation of some certain items. My Uncles usually cook the meats, like the
turkey and the ham, while my Aunt and some of the other women in my family
prepare the rest of the feast. I think
it is important to note the reason that the men prepare the meat in our family
relates to the concept of meat has a masculine connotation. In commercials, it is always the husbands who
are involved in the cookouts, and the preparation of the meat. We, like many families presented in movies
that contain Thanksgiving, pray before we eat.
I’ve always grown up where the tradition was that the kids sat at one
table to eat while the adults sat at another.
This particular theme is sometimes viewed in movies. Although our Thanksgivings tend to be
disorganized, I would have to say that for the most part we have a traditional
Thanksgiving with very little variations.

Interesting that you suggest that your family traditions are "imported culturally through the media" -- have there been any particular media that have proved most influential? I'd also be interested to know whether the men in your family prepare the meat only on the holidays or if they take up that role during the rest of the year.
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